My husband and I live in Alberta, Canada and we are using an infertility clinic in the U.S. We are looking for a donor who we hope already has children of her own and who preferably lives in Alberta, too.
We are looking for someone who is willing to meet with us before the donation and also with any child we might have through the donation, presumably when the child becomes an adult.
We look at this as similar to an open adoption in some ways. My husband and I will not likely require a lot of contact with the donor, but sometimes children want to meet the person they are biologically related to. I don't want to deprive a child of that if he or she feels strongly about it.
We are looking for a donor who is enthusiastic about creating this little life and possibly meeting him or her some day.
This is one of the reasons that we thought it might be better to have a donor that lives closer to us rather than far away.
If you think you might be that person, please email me at madeleine8002@yahoo.ca.
