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by jbirdsbabydoll » Thu Mar 16, 2006 2:17 pm
My name is Billi I am a 21 YO female living in Peach Co.,Georgia. I am willing to travel. I am in excellent health, and so is my family. I am a non-smoker and I dont drink. I am a mother of two. My first is my son Bradley who is 2, he was a victory on the first try, he won State of Georgia's pageant as \"Baby Master 2005\". My daughter is 3 months old she was attempted and concieved on my sons first birthday victory on the first try again! It seems I'm a fertility bank of some sort  . I graduated from High school at 17, joined the Army at 18 and became an Intelligence Officer. I also got my Bachelor's in Criminal Investgations. I recently got my Sustitute teachers certificate. I love kids and I am striving to one day become a Principle. I left my job as a 911 Dispatcher and opened an In-Home Daycare to stay home with my daughter, I keep two other children right now while waiting for my teacher paperwork to be finished. I am caucasian, 5'1'', Blonde hair and Hazel eyes, I have a picture if wanted, please contact me by email or phone. jbirdsbabydoll@aol.com (***) ***-****. I dont want to have anymore kids right now, but I would like to help others experience the joy I have. Just because I'm not using my eggs, doesn't mean they should go to waste, each one of them is a tiny child wanting to live and to be loved.
Billi.
**Edited by moderator to remove phone number**
Billi,
I removed your phone number from your post- it is not a good idea to post such personal information on a public message board. If you want to get in touch off the main board, use your email address or register so that you can send private messages back and forth.
Thanks,
Monica
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by Guest » Sun Mar 19, 2006 11:37 pm
It's hurtful to brag about your fertilty to women who cannot concieve on thier own and have to rely on other women to \"give\"them eggs
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by Guest » Wed Mar 22, 2006 2:07 pm
I don't agree. As someone who needs an egg donor, I would hope that my potential egg donor is honest and fertile.
Although we don't want to hear how 'easy' it is for some people to get pregnant while we struggle through it - it's a reality.
As long as an egg donor is being honest and is not trying to deceive others (especially when they've gone through so much already).
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by Guest » Wed Mar 22, 2006 2:08 pm
I don't agree. As someone who needs an egg donor, I would hope that my potential egg donor is honest and fertile.
Although we don't want to hear how 'easy' it is for some people to get pregnant while we struggle through it - it's a reality.
As long as an egg donor is being honest and is not trying to deceive others (especially when they've gone through so much already).
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by Guest » Thu Mar 23, 2006 9:00 pm
I don't agree either. In any other situation I would not want to hear a woman \"brag\" about her fertility, but not when an ED is in question. Please \"brag\" away if it is the truth. A potential ED needs to be fertile with a good reproductive history and it should not be a secret.
Would you want an ED that you don't know anything about? Maybe you are not ready to speak to an ED yet. 
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by Guest » Thu Mar 23, 2006 9:22 pm
To the first replier, please do not make donors feel bad for mentioning their great fertility on this website under the heading \"Independent Donors.\" Truly, you're way too sensitive! It seems you expect everyone on this website to be aware that you might be sensitive to someone else's fertility and we should all act accordingly. This is not a website for emotional support; it is a GREAT website for information to help other women.
If you find a section upsetting, then don't read it. Your comments might make Donors who can really help other women either feel paranoid about what they write (fearing they will be slammed), or make them not want to post here at all -- hurting many many women who come here to seek a donor.
I think you really have a lot of nerve putting your feelings above the needs of all others, and truly should apologize to the donor you \"slammed\" who is here trying to HELP others.
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by Guest » Fri Mar 24, 2006 8:18 pm
I think too much is being made of a one line post. I don’t think apologies are required from anyone, since I don’t think the donor realized how her post might appear to someone who has possibly been through incredible ordeals trying to conceive. Nor do I think the original respondent’s post was snarky, just honest. I, too, hope this board can be a non-intimidating place for independent donors to post ads, but the feedback in the first recipient’s post was more than . by the next two. There is no need to make an issue out of it by demanding an apology.
Recipients would of course want to know that this donor has had two children within the last three years, both conceived on the first attempt. That’s wonderful!! Although her husband's sperm is also an important part of the equation, this is a great indicator that she is making high quality eggs. (Most women do at 21.) I agree donors should not hesitate to let us know that they are fertile, and their proofs of this. These are very desirable qualities to recipients.
On the other hand, I agree that referring (twice) to a child as \"a victory on the first try\" could be worded more tactfully. (After all, if she is a victor, what does that make us? Losers?) But I could imagine that someone who was in the military and has involved her child(ren) in the pageant industry may have developed such a joke with their husband and not realize how it comes off in a different context. Or she may be extending and misapplying the concept of “battlingâ€
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by kreens » Wed Mar 29, 2006 1:16 am
Hello
as an egg donor myself i was a little suprised by that reaction. I just had my egg retrieval on monday. i have also said to my recipient that i was fertile!! without meaning to offend
just my opinion here but in australia we do not get paid at all for donation - it is totally a different experience. You dont need to say what your education is etc etc. Donors are rare in australia. so i guess being a donor is sort of competive in america whereas in australia the many few that choose to donate are chosen
i myself have 2 children but have had 3 and lost my first son fullterm at birth (not genetic), which is why i wanted to donate.
if my recipient had said that comment i would have been a bit upset and reluctant to donate
anyway i wish the donor all the best
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by annie » Sat Sep 09, 2006 11:07 am
hi
Can yougive a physical description of yourself and/or do you have any pictures you can share? We are looking for a donor sometime in Jan. \"07.
Hope to hear from you,
Andrea
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