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Hello, I am a twice over gestational surrogate and mother of THREE GORGEOUS children. I have been married for 13 years and have great support from my husband. I am 30 years old but my mother had two children in her 30's and one in her 40's so I know the fertility is still there. I am 5'4\" and told by most that I am very attractive. I am very intelligent and scored fairly high on my SATs although it has been a while LOL! I love to read, spend time with my family and sing! I enjoy going to school and do so .. I feel you can never learn enough. I have dark blond/light brown hair, brown eyes, medium complected, I weigh about 135lbs right now but am still working off baby weight. If you are interested, I will send pics. My fee is lower than average first timers just because it is my first time donating and I am 30. I have very YOUNG looking genetics as my mother still looks like my sister. I will again send pics. Hope to hear from you soon and wish you the best on your search for you perfect donor!

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To Whom It May Concern:

It has been brought to my attention that this surrogate was less than forthcoming and honest about her medical history, which includes severe depression and was hospitalized a year ago (while pregnant with her last surrogate baby) for an attempted suicide.


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I would like for you to ask me directly about my circumstances that ANYONE could exaggerate. I am no longer looking to be a donor anymore so this message can be taken down. I have been accepted by an agency. Thankyou for being concerned for others but I think it only appropriate that what you hear be verified FIRST. Thank you.

Ok, after sleeping on it last night I am going to take this opportunity to put myself out there AGAIN. So that all who want to know the past get to know it. I don't think it is necessary but I guess some think I am lying by not putting it on a public board so here it goes.

My husband and I were separated for a short time last year. I dealt with things fine for the first month or so but began to feel stressed and scared. I had transferred with my second GS baby and gotten pregnant during the separation NOT before. I knew and my IFs knew that I was separated when we agreed to continue with our 3rd IVF attempt. I got pregnant, I say a good sign that I did my job well as a GS despite the personal issues I was having to face at the time. In July I started crying a lot and feeling like there was no light at the end of the tunnel. I missed my husband dearly but he was still going through his own issues and wasn't ready to try again. I was hurt and devestated and got help. When asked by a counselor at the facility that my husband (yes he took me) broght me to if I had thoughts of suicide I told him I was \"just tired\". I may not have used those exact words but I did NOT try to kill myself nor did I tell the man I did. I just NEEDED help to get past the hurt and the betrayal that I felt at the time. I thought that by saying how horrible I felt about being so tired they would surely keep me there as that is what I wanted at the time and they did. All the time my IFs were aware that I was in the hospital. They had been contacted. My IF is a psychiatric nurse practitioner and thought I had done the right thing by going to a place where I could talk through my feelings and get a plan for where my life was going to go if my husband did not want to try to work on our marriage. During this time mind you, my husband and I still had a lot of anger to work through and he did not really have my best interest at heart. He was contacted by one of my so-called friends and he informed her about my situation and somehow it got misconstrued either by him lying, her misunderstanding or her lying that I tried to kill myself! THIS IS FALSE!!!!! I would NEVER put my children without a mother, I would NEVER hurt an unborn baby that my IFs and I had prayed and worked so hard for. It is ridiculous and unheard of! So, if this makes me unable to donate, unable to carry a baby, unable to LOVE and GIVE someone the greatest gift, then so be it. My heart is saddened by all of this. I KNOW I am a great surrogate, my IFs will vouch for that. I am sorry if this is not the right way to go about handling this but I can no longer be called a liar or a fake as that is NOT me. I am an open book. I am a passionate person that LOVES her family and fought for them and hurt for them and I am PROUD to say my husband and I are doing BETTER than EVER and when I say EVER I mean, EVER! He is a changed man and a better person not that he was ever bad but he truly loves me and shows me every day and you know what, I guess that is all that matters. While it may be easy for some to be selfish enough to forget about the families who want to experience the joy of having a child I can't seem to. Despite the obstacles that some are trying to throw in my path, I STILL want to help because I know what a miracle children are and I am HONORED to help couples achieve those miracles. Please feel free to give your opinions here. Believe me, I have heard it all. (((HUGS))) to all the couples out there trying to achieve your dreams. If I can help AT ALL in anyway, please let me know. I can be an ear to listen or a friend to help. THANKS,
ANGEL